Kids are a tremendous present from God (Psalm 127:3), identified and cherished by Him from earlier than they have been even born (Psalm 139). Changing into a dad or mum is life altering. While thrilling, it’s extremely daunting, and attending to grips with all of the tasks of serving to a bit of one to study and develop wants an enormous quantity of assist and recommendation from others.
Midwives, well being guests and child teams provide nice assist to folks and carers, teaching them to assist their kid’s bodily, psychological, and emotional growth. However what about our toddler’s religious life?
We’re not speaking about manipulating our kids right into a set of beliefs however recognising that each human has a religious half to them. This appears to be like totally different for each youngster. Every of my three have walked a distinct path and relate to God in several methods. As dad and mom it is superb to look at this unfurl and develop together with their character, as they develop and alter by way of these early years.
They want our assist and steerage to seek out their very own journey of connecting with God. A connection which may assist, maintain, encourage, and floor them now and in years to return. God longs to journey alongside them, educate them and provides them peace (Isaiah 54:13).
The Church performs a beautiful function in serving dad and mom and carers with little ones and is a welcoming assist system for a lot of. Nevertheless, a child that has been born within the final two years has been born right into a world that is not ‘regular’, and fogeys have not had the face-to-face contact or assist that could be very a lot wanted in these early days. What we now have is a chance for the church to interact and re-engage with these households in our put up lockdown world.
I imagine it’s the job of the Church to empower new dad and mom of their kid’s religious journey. However have we virtually forgotten about our youngest? And is the Church outfitted for this function?
A latest research by Liverpool Hope College (Holmes et al. 2022) discovered that 40% of oldsters felt that the native church didn’t present any sources to assist household religion at dwelling. Furthermore, the research concluded over 1 / 4 of church leaders did not know whether or not their households knew the place to seek out sources. That is very true of households with infants and toddlers.
Lots of the sources that do exist give attention to older youngsters who’re verbal, or actions aimed toward youngsters who can learn and write. For years, church buildings have been wonderful at offering teams that provide a secure place for households to return and play and have a cuppa. However few of them equip the dad and mom to spiritually nurture their littles ones at dwelling. It is time to do extra for this often-forgotten age group.
The excellent news is that this does not must be troublesome. God positioned infants and toddlers in households. The dad and mom or carers who’re with them day-after-day can simply and naturally share religion as a part of their regular day by day actions. All they want are some concepts and inspiration to provide them confidence to get going and preserve going. Church buildings and Christian toddler teams are in a terrific place to encourage and provides them these instruments and concepts.
Parenting for Religion has developed a complete sequence of free and low-cost sources to make this even easier. People or teams can combine and match from the bitesize movies, takeaway sheets, and a slimline e-book. They’ve all been developed by actual dad and mom who know what it’s to be sleep-deprived and really feel a bit out of your depth while juggling all of it.
The concepts are gentle, simple and do not use any difficult Christian jargon or count on you to seek out extra hours in your day. There may be additionally an choice to attend a coaching morning (tenth Could) to seek out out extra or be part of an internet child and toddlers course (begins ninth June) to attach with others. All these sources can be found at parentingforfaith.brf.org.uk/babies-and-toddlers
Anna Hawken is the Parenting for Religion Ministry Lead at Christian charity BRF and mum to a few under-sevens.