4 Rules To Transform A Long Distance Love On The Internet Into A Normal Relationship

Let’s suppose that you are meeting someone online  and that person seem to be the match of your life,

 but is living far away from you. Does it worth  to spend your time in a long distance  relationship with this person?

What if this person is really your soul mate? You may be surprised how much a relationship can  grow if you work at it. If you know and apply  some simple rules, your relationship can turn out  to be one of the most successful and happy  relationships that ever existed.

Distance, combined with phone calls and writing,  electronically or through regular mail, can  foster an enviable intimacy which results from  learning about another’s qualities, values and  ways of thinking, sensitivities, dreams, and  aspirations. This type of intimacy can make your  coming together much more special.

And, as if relationships weren’t complicated  enough, having them across a long distance is  extremely challenging. Just read the following  rules and try to keep them in mind and apply them:

1. The quality of a relationship is more likely  to increase if both people develop the ability to  share feelings openly with each other. Do not be  afraid to tell your partner what you really need  and want from him or her, he or she deserves to  know the truth and judge whether they can give it  to you.

2. Make the relationship a high priority. Avoid  canceling reunions or putting off a phone call.

3. Keep in touch daily. If large phone bills are  a concern, send e-mail, letters, cards and even  faxes. And when you do make contact, don’t just  stick to love talk, but keep each other informed  on the day-to-day aspects of your lives. This way  each of you is aware of how the other is thinking,  feeling and developing.  Late-night talks and  thoughtful letters can convey a lot of what is  most important in the long-term: your goals,  values and dreams.

4. Be prepared to be flexible. Tell your partner  of how much you think about and love him or her  and you will score some important points. Making  them miss you more and you’ll fill them with the  constant urge to see you. But don’t be possessive.   Being paranoid and accusing will only grow  doubts, insecurity and tension between you and  none of those will help the relationship develop

successfully.

If your partner truly wants to be with you, then  they would not want to wait forever to have you  next to her or him. As long as you both trust  each other, inform one another of your personal  lives, keep in touch, your relationship can turn  out into a happy normal relationship.

Ultimately, a fabulous relationship is your goal –

 right?

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