How to Find the Man of Your Dreams

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Many women dream of finding that perfect man,  But the hard part is turning those dreams into reality, now let us examine how to find the man of your dream.

Every week i do receive a lot of women coming to my office asking this same question, How can i locate my dream man.

Are you finding it difficult locating the man of your dream? Your search is over as from this moment.

You will locate the man of your dream in no time.

There are steps that you can take to greatly improve your chances.

Keep listening to find out what you can do to find the man of your dreams.

The first thing you have to know is to understand yourself.

Know your own real needs and distinguish them from other people’s expectations.

Really knowing yourself will make you much more ready to meet someone else.

If you’re struggling to figure out who you are, it’ll be much more difficult to figure out what you want in a relationship.

Being aware of your flaws, and being ready to address them, will also make you more ready to address the issues that arise in a relationship. If you’re convinced you’re perfect, you’ll be much less likely to compromise.

In searching for your dream man, please, Don’t expect perfection.

If you find it, all  the better. But, admit it; you’re not perfect. No one is perfect.

If you’re looking for a 100% perfect man, you will never find him and you will wait till eternity.

So be quick to forgive those little mistakes or annoying habits that don’t matter, and hopefully he will overlook your imperfections too.

If you turn away a guy who doesn’t meet all the criteria on your “perfect man” checklist, you may be overlooking some amazing qualities you didn’t even know you were looking for.

Just remember: not expecting perfection does not mean the same thing as being ready to settle. You’re better off being alone than ending with a guy who you think is “good enough” or “better than being alone.”

Be happy being alone. If you want to be ready to find the man of your dreams,

then you have to be content with your own company before you begin your search, don’t rush.

 

Love yourself. This is another important point. If you want to be able to find the man of your dreams, you have to love who you are.

This doesn’t mean that you have to completely love every part of yourself, but that you are confident in who you are and happy with what you have to offer.

Being aware of your flaws is part of loving yourself, and it will make you a much more grounded person in a relationship.

You don’t have to brag about what an amazing person you are; you just have to know that you are a worthwhile person deep down.

Finding the man of your dreams will not make you automatically love yourself. You’ll need to work to build your self-confidence on your own.

Of course, finding the right man will make you love yourself even more. But you need to start with a baseline of self-love for this to work.

Dating various men will help you get a better sense of your dating style, and of your real expectations in a relationship.

You shouldn’t date people you obviously don’t like just to get some experience,

but you should think about being open-minded and dating various people, even if means stepping out of your comfort zone a bit.

Getting some experience will also help you see how difficult it is to find “the perfect man”; every man is different and has a lot to offer, but nobody’s perfect.

If you expect perfection but never date, it’ll be much harder to shatter this illusion.

At this junction, i will like to mention various surprising places you can locate your dream man,

 

Number one,

you could find your idea man in a pet shop,

Owning a pet shows he’s responsible and caring.

Number two,

Museum

Number three,

Computer repair shop,

It’s even better if you are both computer guru

Number four,

Organic market

Something sexy about a guy who cares about what goes into his body.

Number five,

The bookstore

You can gauge whether you have anything in common by his book selection.

Number six

Book signings

You both love the same author

Number seven,

Attending singles seminars

Number eight

Attend seminars and workshops

Number nine

Visit Amusement park

Number ten

Visit Cinema houses

Number eleven

You could find one in a Swimming pool

Number twelve

Educational institutions

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